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Last night a rush of anxiety reminded me how important it is to relax and unwind before going to bed.  My heart began racing about midnight after 30 minutes of coaxing myself to fall asleep.  It was the night before a crazy-busy week filled with a shit-load of personal and professional obligations.

Like the revving of a race car’s engine, my mind was ready to go. One giant mental check list on a repetitive track of past, present and future thoughts. I was a driver in a cut-throat mental speedway without the option of slowing down. Green flag waved, the Shanny 500 was under way.

How the race began …

I finished watching an old episode of Lost, snuggled under the covers and began thanking the Universe for so many blessings; for a warm bed to sleep in with plenty of blankets, for my healthy body and loving family. Gratitude for a lovely Autumn day with activities like yard work, picking out pumpkins, drinking cider and gobbling up spicy cake donuts.

Time to rest  …  Ahhhh  …

Falling off to a deep sleep would have been lovely if it weren’t for the tenacious voices in my head.

After resting in bed for awhile, the reality of the upcoming week began to unfold along with remnants of what happened the prior week. I was traveling at a high rate of speed going for the apex of every turn around the track.

“Why did My daughter’s teacher take it upon herself to talk with my nine year old about the facts of life without my permission, how can I make the best of the situation?”  “What a big week,  I have a school function on Monday night and a teleconference on Tuesday and Yoga to teach on Wednesday.” ” It is too much.”  “It will be fine.” “You need to get some rest.”  “I am peaceful, I am peaceful, I am Peaceful.”   “Crap why is my heart racing? “I’m sure I’m alright,  just a bit anxious about the week.”  I was beginning to feel out of control.  The CAUTION flag was waved and I needed a pit stop.  “Breathe deeply.” Inhale, exhale, inhale, exhale … Deep inhalation, deeper exhalation.

After several minutes of focused breathing the caution flag was removed.  My mind and heart had settled down, and I finally fell off into a much needed deep sleep.

We all experience anxiety from time to time.  Understanding some of the emotional and physical symptoms will help get through your next race.

In addition to the primary symptoms excessive fear and worry, other common emotional symptoms of anxiety include:

Emotional symptoms of anxiety

• Feelings of apprehension or dread
• Trouble concentrating
• Feeling tense and jumpy
• Anticipating the worst

Physical symptoms of anxiety

As a product of the body’s fight-or-flight response, anxiety involves a wide range of physical symptoms. Because of the numerous physical symptoms, anxiety sufferers often mistake their disorder for a medical illness.

Common physical symptoms of anxiety include:

• Pounding heart
• Sweating
• Stomach upset or dizziness
• Frequent urination or diarrhea
• Shortness of breath

Relieve Your Symptoms

• Learn how to control your breathing
• Change up your physical location
• Practice yoga, meditation and deep relaxation techniques
• Get in a hot bath
• Read or listen to soothing music

How do you relieve symptoms of stress and anxiety?

Do you have any resources to share?

For more information about  how you can support yourself when feeling anxious, check out www.anxietyslayer.com

If your answer is yes, I have 5 questions for you.

• Are you trying to do everything on your own?

• What can you do to make this situation better?

• What is the most important thing you can do right now?

• Is this something that will have a serious effect on your life a month from now?

• What I can I learn from this situation to make sure I’m never under this sort of stress again?

You will feel a whole hell of a lot better once you drill down, gauge and get a handle on your situation.